How about slowing down your relationship which you feel it is moving too fast
Peter and his partner have been falling in love since they first meet during the spring of year. They have always constantly wanted to improve themselves for their personal well being, so that they can continue to be motivated and inspiring lovers for any envious friends or peers to overpower jealousy.
Ironically, their relationship has been opinionated by some other parents who think that they cannot let their relationship executed too quickly. The couples have wanted to enter into marriage as soon as possible, but have you wondered this question, if they cannot slow down the relationship, when they invest too much, if the relationship happens to have some pitfalls and hiccups, how are they going to salvage their relationship. That is why some parents actually object them rushing their relationship too fast. If you are reading this piece of article, and feels that you are one of them, not to worry, this piece of article will teach you how you can actually slow down your relationship which you feel that it is moving too fast.
So you've been dating for several months and now you are talking about getting married. Your friends and family ask you if you've lost your mind and you respond with stars in your eyes, "But we're in love..." As the word love rolls off of your tongue you wonder for a brief moment if your relationship is moving too fast, and you quickly turn to thoughts of your wedding gown, potential bridesmaids, and wonder what your engagement ring will look like. You may even realize that things are moving quickly, but there is a part of you that doesn't want to slow down. You love excitement and adventure and since the past few months have been a blast, you are sure the rest of your life will be perfect, right?
Wrong! Too many people have made the mistake of rushing into a relationship and subsequently marriage before giving their relationship chance to truly blossom. If you are planning your bridal shower before you've had your first real fight, then you are moving way to fast and it is time to slow down. The trouble with a relationship is that there are two people in it. This means that there are two different time schedules and two lives that are intersecting at the same point in time. Whether or not those two lives will continue travelling down the same road and at the same time is questionable. What is inevitable; however that is at some point, the two of you will head in different directions. It may not be at the same time, but it will occur. Whether it is a difference of opinion, different tastes, or different life choices, moving too fast may mean serious conflict when it is time to make serious decisions as a team.
If you are planning any type of long term relationship or commitment, yet haven't discovered how to handle your first life crises or difference of opinion, then it is time to slow down. Let your relationship take the time it needs to grow. This is often accomplished inadvertently, when you face life's many challenges together. Every couple finds that the beginning months of a relationship are full of love and happiness. It's what happens in the later months, when you aren't feeling so wonderfully attracted to each other that you can truly begin to gauge where a relationship stands.
If your relationship is built to last you won't find out until you endure some trials and hardships. Everyone wants to be in a relationship for the long haul. No one intentionally enters into a relationship thinking that it will be over in a few months. However, it is much easier to end a relationship when you have been dating for several months then to file for divorce several years later. Move slowly and let nature take its course. Wait until you have a few real fights (the kind where you think you never want to see each other again) and then see where your relationship stands. Other than that, you are moving too fast.
Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.
I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.
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